Paul Mescal, who has been a subject of intense media attention since his rise to fame, has been open about the challenges of navigating his personal life in the public eye.
He has shared his discomfort with the constant scrutiny and how it can sometimes feel like an obligation to reveal personal details to satisfy public curiosity.
However, he has also expressed his intention to keep his romantic relationships private, emphasizing that giving into the pressure to confirm or deny rumors doesn’t bring any lasting satisfaction.
Gracie Abrams (June 2024 – Present)
In June 2024, Paul Mescal was first linked to American singer Gracie Abrams. The two were photographed together in London, seemingly enjoying each other’s company.
Their relationship was further speculated upon when they were spotted shopping in Mayfair a month later, and by August, reports surfaced that the pair had been seen holding hands and kissing.
The two were last seen together in early September 2024, walking hand in hand through London, suggesting that they may be dating.
Although neither party has confirmed the nature of their relationship, this marks the first significant romantic connection for Mescal since his breakup with singer Phoebe Bridgers.
Phoebe Bridgers (2020-2022)
Mescal’s most notable public relationship was with American singer-songwriter Phoebe Bridgers.
The pair were first linked in early 2020 after Bridgers tweeted about Normal People, which led to an online exchange with Mescal.
By June 2020, they confirmed their relationship, and Mescal appeared in the music video for Bridgers’ song “Savior Complex.”
The couple made several public appearances together, including at the 2021 LACMA Art + Film Gala and the 2022 Met Gala.
Despite widespread speculation about their relationship, including rumors of a possible engagement, the couple parted ways in early 2023.
Mescal never officially commented on the split but later shared his frustration with the entitlement people feel toward information about his relationships.
Public Perception and Privacy
Throughout his relationships, Mescal has maintained a strong desire for privacy. He has been vocal about the pressure and temptation to address rumors directly, but he has made it clear that he doesn’t find public disclosures about his personal life helpful.
As he explained in an interview, sharing personal details often only leads to more speculation and doesn’t offer any real sense of fulfillment.
He has stressed that his private life is sacred and should remain separate from his public persona.