After a series of high-profile relationships, Selena Gomez has found lasting love with record producer Benny Blanco. The couple, who went public in December 2023, have since become engaged and are planning their future together. Here’s everything you need to know about their relationship.
From Friends to Lovers: A Timeline of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s Relationship
Early Years: A Professional Connection
Before they became romantically involved, Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco had a long professional history. Blanco, a Grammy-winning producer, first worked with Gomez on her 2015 album Revival, producing hits like “Same Old Love” and “Kill ‘Em With Kindness.” He also collaborated with her on the 2017 track “Trust Nobody” with Cashmere Cat.
Interestingly, Blanco was also friends with Gomez’s ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber, whom he met in 2009—a year before Bieber and Gomez began dating. Despite this connection, Gomez and Blanco remained professional collaborators and friends for years before romance blossomed.
2019: Their First Musical Collaboration
In March 2019, Gomez and Blanco released “I Can’t Get Enough” with J Balvin and Tainy. The playful music video featured Blanco in a teddy bear costume dancing with Gomez, hinting at their easygoing chemistry.
2020: A Brief Misunderstanding
In October 2020, fans speculated that Blanco had thrown subtle shade at Gomez during an interview about Justin Bieber’s song “Lonely.” He referenced “cookie-cutter pop artists” who launch makeup lines—a comment some interpreted as a dig at Gomez, who had just launched Rare Beauty. However, Blanco never confirmed this, and the two remained on good terms.
2023: The Relationship Goes Private, Then Public
By mid-2023, Gomez and Blanco were quietly dating. She later revealed they had been together for six months before confirming their relationship in December 2023.
On December 7, 2023, Gomez responded to a fan account’s post about her relationship status with a simple “Facts,” confirming she was no longer single. She then shared a photo of them together on her Instagram Story and passionately defended him in the comments, writing:
- “He has treated me better than any human being on this planet.”
- “He’s still better than anyone I’ve ever been with.”
She also posted a photo of herself wearing a “B” ring (for Benny) on her left ring finger, sparking engagement rumors even then.
2024: A Year of Love and Milestones
Their relationship quickly became serious, with Blanco attending Gomez’s Rare Beauty events, accompanying her to award shows, and even cooking for her while she filmed Only Murders in the Building.
Key moments included:
- January 2024: Their first public date at a Lakers game.
- February 2024: Gomez posted a heartfelt tribute to Blanco, calling him her “best friend.”
- March 2024: Blanco revealed on a livestream that Gomez loves his homemade soup and steak.
- May 2024: Sources confirmed they had discussed marriage and children.
- July 2024: Blanco celebrated Gomez’s birthday with a sweet Instagram post, calling himself “your teddy bear in real life.”
December 2024: The Engagement
On December 11, 2024, Gomez announced their engagement with a stunning marquise diamond ring. She captioned the post:
“forever begins now..”
Blanco responded: “hey wait… that’s my wife.”
A source told Entertainment Tonight that Gomez “finally felt comfortable enough” to share their love publicly, adding:
“Benny is a great communicator, is honest and open with Selena, and listens to her. He’s respectful, isn’t a player, and not in it for the attention or fame.”
2025: A Future Together
The couple has since:
- Purchased a $35 million mansion in Beverly Hills (February 2025).
- Released their first collaborative album, I Said I Love You First (February 2025).
- Attended the Oscars together (March 2025), where Scarlett Johansson gushed about their “honeymoon-phase cuteness.”
In a Rolling Stone interview, Blanco reflected:
“It feels like we got engaged yesterday, but also like we got engaged 20 years ago. I’ve known her since she was 18… My biggest regret is that we didn’t get to do this earlier.”
Why This Relationship Is Different
Gomez has described Blanco as “the safest I’ve ever felt” in a relationship. Unlike past romances, which played out under intense media scrutiny, this one has been built on:
- Longstanding friendship (they’ve known each other for over a decade).
- Mutual respect (they support each other’s careers and passions).
- Privacy (while they share glimpses of their love, they keep intimate moments to themselves).
Selena Gomez’s love story with Benny Blanco is more than just another celebrity romance—it’s a testament to patience, friendship, and finding love when you least expect it.
After years of high-profile relationships, public breakups, and personal struggles, Gomez has finally found a partner who not only understands her world but cherishes her for exactly who she is.
Unlike her past romances, which were often scrutinized under the harsh glare of the media, her relationship with Blanco has blossomed in a space of mutual respect, security, and genuine companionship.
What makes their bond so special is the foundation it was built on. Unlike whirlwind Hollywood romances that burn bright and fade fast, Gomez and Blanco’s connection evolved over years of collaboration and friendship.
They weren’t strangers when love sparked—they already knew each other’s quirks, values, and dreams. Blanco wasn’t just another famous face in her orbit; he was someone who had witnessed her growth, respected her journey, and stood by her long before romance entered the picture.
This deep familiarity allowed their relationship to flourish naturally, without the pressure of public expectations or the instability that often comes with dating in the spotlight.
Gomez herself has repeatedly emphasized how different this love feels. In past relationships, she often found herself defending her choices or navigating toxicity.
With Blanco, she’s experienced a love that feels safe, supportive, and freeing. She no longer has to justify her happiness to the world because, for the first time, it’s undeniably real.
Whether it’s his unwavering support for Rare Beauty, his playful yet heartfelt social media tributes, or the way he effortlessly fits into her family life, Blanco has proven himself to be the partner Gomez has always deserved.
Their engagement in December 2024 wasn’t just a romantic milestone—it was a declaration that Gomez has finally found the love she’s been waiting for.
The way she proudly showed off her marquise diamond ring (a dream she’s had since her “Good for You” days) speaks volumes about how confident she is in their future. Meanwhile, Blanco’s devotion is evident in everything from his goofy Instagram captions to the way he lights up when talking about her in interviews.
