When rumors first started swirling in spring 2023 that actress and singer Hailee Steinfeld was dating Buffalo Bills quarterback Josh Allen, fans were intrigued by the unexpected pairing.
The two were first seen together on May 25, 2023, sparking curiosity among pop culture followers and NFL watchers alike. Just days later, they were spotted again, and it wasn’t long before the internet caught on. But with all the recent engagement buzz and public appearances, many are now wondering: Did Hailee Steinfeld and Josh Allen split?
The short answer is—no. In fact, the couple seems more solid than ever.
Their relationship, while initially quiet, has grown into something both public and deeply meaningful. Let’s take a look at how it all started, how their love evolved, and where things stand today.
From First Glance to First Date
Josh Allen and Hailee Steinfeld were first photographed together during Memorial Day weekend in May 2023. The couple was seen heading to dinner in New York City, and within days, photos surfaced of them at the intimate sushi spot Sushi by Bou. The restaurant’s founder, Michael Sinensky, even posted snaps of the two enjoying their meal.
While they didn’t confirm anything at the time, their body language and frequent sightings told fans everything they needed to know. According to sources, they had been “hanging out for a few weeks” and were “having fun.” Though it was early days, the chemistry was apparent.
Building Their Bond in Private
Following those initial sightings, the couple chose to keep their growing romance mostly under wraps. They took a low-key trip to Los Cabos in July 2023, where they were photographed kissing in the ocean. At that point, it was obvious their connection was more than just casual. Steinfeld wore a sun hat and sunglasses as she embraced Allen in the water—photos that made headlines and delighted fans.
By September, things were getting even more serious. Hailee was seen shopping with Josh’s mom, Lavonne Allen, at a local Buffalo boutique that sells Bills merchandise. The two women posed for photos together, suggesting that Steinfeld was already considered family.
Going Public and Instagram Official
After months of quietly dating, the couple made things official on Instagram in July 2024. Josh posted a carousel of images that included several of Hailee, captioning the post with a simple, “Onward.” Around the same time, Steinfeld shared her own set of photos, including one in Paris with the caption, “We’ll always have Paris.” Though she appeared solo in the images, fans believed Allen had taken them.
By August 2024, Allen was ready to acknowledge their relationship in public. During an interview on the “Up & Adams” show, host Kay Adams teased him about the Instagram reveal, jokingly calling it a “hard launch.” Allen smiled and simply said, “We love love.”
His teammate, Dalton Kincaid, wasn’t as reserved, gushing about Steinfeld and saying, “She’s awesome.” He also added that Allen’s number one rule was, “When you love somebody, tell them.”
Their First Big Milestones as a Couple
In October 2024, the couple made an appearance together at the Shakir Family Pet Adoption event in Buffalo. Allen, ever the dog lover, was photographed cuddling puppies, with Hailee by his side wearing a blue baseball cap and a cozy white sweater. It was one of their first joint public appearances outside the context of football or red carpet events.
Later that month, they celebrated Halloween with a matching costume. Dressed as ringmasters in circus-themed attire, Hailee and Josh shared sweet photos on Instagram. In one picture, they kissed while wearing matching red coats and black top hats.
Then came the biggest reveal yet.
A Thanksgiving Proposal
On November 22, 2024, Hailee announced their engagement via Instagram. The photo showed her kissing Josh as he knelt on one knee, ring box in hand, with a breathtaking ocean view behind them. Her caption simply read, “11•22•24.”
In the December issue of her Beau Society newsletter, Hailee dished on the details of the special day. During a mini “fiancé Q&A,” Allen confessed he’d been nervous leading up to the proposal and that he was worried Hailee would figure it out.
At brunch earlier that day, she had jokingly asked him, “Can we get married already?!?” Little did she know, he was planning to propose just hours later.
Allen recalled what he said on one knee: “I said I couldn’t wait any longer. I said I can’t wait to start a family with you. I said your full name, and I asked you very nicely. I said please… You were extremely surprised, you said yes, and that was all that mattered to me.”
Love and Career: A Winning Combo
In December 2024, Allen gave credit to his fiancée for helping him stay grounded and focused during the NFL season. During an interview with the Associated Press, he shared that Steinfeld had been “a huge part” of his success, calling her his biggest supporter. His teammate, Dion Dawkins, added that Allen’s relationship stability had positively impacted his performance on the field.
The bond was even more evident at the 2025 NFL Honors in February. Allen won the Most Valuable Player award and used his acceptance speech to publicly thank Steinfeld. “You’ve been my rock,” he said. “You are my best friend [and] I would not be standing on this stage if it weren’t for you.”
They walked the red carpet together that night, with Steinfeld showing off her engagement ring to photographers.
Life Post-Engagement
In March 2025, Hailee opened up about how life has been since the proposal. Speaking to People, she said, “I couldn’t be more excited. I’m so happy—we’re so happy—and we’re just soaking in every moment.”
Just a few weeks later, the couple attended the after-party for the premiere of Steinfeld’s new film Sinners in New York City. While they didn’t walk the red carpet together, they were seen holding hands inside the event. Hailee wore a dramatic red gown with a plunging neckline, while Allen kept it classic in all black.
So, Did They Break Up?
Despite any curiosity or speculation, there’s absolutely no sign that Hailee Steinfeld and Josh Allen have split. In fact, everything points to the opposite. Their relationship has evolved from quiet beginnings into a deeply committed and loving partnership.
With a wedding likely on the horizon and both of their careers thriving, Steinfeld and Allen are proving that Hollywood romance and professional sports stardom can mix—beautifully.
Their story is just getting started.
